Today, I lost a very dear friend.We shared so many precious memories, both good, bad, and downright ugly and loved each other just the same. He was the type of person that could make you laugh through tears. He loved me through my awkward stages in high school, triumphed in my good times, cried with me in my bad times, offered a shoulder to cry on, and a shoe to throw at anyone who crossed me. Life got in the way and we drifted. He will always hold a huge part in my heart. Derik understood me when nobody else possibly could. He was like a brother to me. A diva-ish brother, if you will.
As I sit here, memories flood into my head. The times we cut loose, times when we would talk for hours on end about issues in our lives, the novel we planned on writing together poking fun at our wreck of a family, the housewarming party we threw when we moved in together (he was my first roommate).
It's all so surreal. The thought of him simply not being alive is unfathomable. One thing I can't shake is "Why, Derik? Why?". If I could turn back the hands of time I would drive at any hour just to be by his side and to hug him. He'll never know that. He'll never know that I credit him for the person I am today. How he helped me get on my feet. How he was one of the few people who loved me for who I was completely and adored my quirks. How I thought about him frequently but didn't want to bore him with my "suburban life". He'll never know how many people cared for him. How any of us would have dropped everything and ran to his side to keep him from taking his life.
Derik, my dear friend, you will be missed immensely. I love you. Thank you for all of the wonderful memories and dreams we shared together. Rest in peace.
Sunday, March 7, 2010
and I would have stayed up with you all night had I known how to save a life.
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Friday, August 7, 2009
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Mono-logue
I mean really?! I thought it was a thing of the past...much like small pox. To my un-delight, I was very wrong and at the age of 25 no less!
Ya know the funny thing? I've been on two long distance vacations while I've been sick and had no idea. It explains soooooo much now! The downfall? I probably pro-longed the illness. Ugh!
After two months of this I forget what it feels like to be "normal" (whatever that is ).
Blessed be the day that I wake up after a full nights sleep and actually feel rested and ready to start the day. A day when I have energy and don't break into cold sweats by simply getting ready to go somewhere and walk upstairs and not feel winded.
..Until that day I'll just make one big joke out of this and chuckle.
God really has an amazing sense of humor. My life's ongoing theme: Irony.
Psalm 37:7
Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him
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It's a way of life.. "HOOAH"
I am the wife of an American Soldier. I am a supporter of the United States Army - an encouragement for the protectors of the greatest nation on earth.
Because I am proud of my husband and the uniform that he wears, I will always act in ways creditable to him, the military service and the nation he is sworn to gaurd.I am proud of my husband.
I will do all that I can to protect and provide for my family in his absence. I will be loyal to myhusband and to the vows that we made as we entered the covenant of marriage.I will do my full part to carry on the values and goals we have set apart for our family and I will continue to instruct our children in the same manner.
As a soldier's wife, I realize that I play a vital role in my husband's decision to become a member of a time-honored profession - that I am doing my share to keep alive the principles of freedom for which my country stands.
No matter what situation I am in, I will never do anything, for pleasure, profit, or personal safety, which will disgrace my husband, his uniform or our country.
I will use every means I have to encourage my husband to be the best soldier that he can be.I am proud of my husband, my country and its flag.I will fly the flag and will always remember the sacrafices made by my husband and by generations of men and women that have served our beloved country.
I will try to make my husband proud of the manner in which I accept his decision to defend my freedom andthe freedom of all American citizens -for I am the wife of an American soldier.
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Wednesday, July 22, 2009
My Only Constant....
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Labels: Life.
Monday, July 20, 2009
Just another Manic ( Job Search-a-thon) Monday.
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Labels: Jobs